Divorce may close one chapter, but it doesn't define the rest of your story
Ewelina Mlynarek
Separation, Divorce & Life Transition Coach
Qualified IDVA (Independent Domestic Abuse Advisor)
I support you in rediscovering your peace, strength, and self-confidence during or after difficult times, step by step, with compassion and at a pace that feels right for you.
Divorce may close one chapter, but it doesn't define the rest of your story
Ewelina Mlynarek
Separation, Divorce & Life Transition Coach
Qualified IDVA (Independent Domestic Abuse Advisor)
I support you in rediscovering your peace, strength, and self-confidence during or after difficult times, step by step, with compassion and at a pace that feels right for you.
Asking for help is a powerful skill
About Me
I'm a accredited Breakup and Divorce Coach with advance expertise in domestic abuse, and a qualified IDVA (Independent Domestic Violence Advisor), which enables me to support my clients, experiencing domestic abuse in the Criminal and Family Court regardless whether the have a lawyer or not. As an IDVA, working with victims of domestic abuse on everyday basis, I have an extensive knowledge and expertise in providing relevant support to victims, including support around safety planning, court proceedings, child arrangements or liaising with police or social services.
I support individuals through some of the most challenging and life-changing moments with clarity, compassion and professional insight, so you don't have to go through it alone.
I understand the emotional overwhelm, the self-doubt, and the silence that can surround you during this time. I offer a safe, non-judgemental and trauma informed support where you can rebuild your peace, restore your self-confidence and reconnect with who you truly are.
Asking for help can feel like the hardest step - but it is also the most powerful one.
I help you rise from difficult experiences, regain control, and move forward with confidence
I Can Support You When...
You are facing the decision to separate or divorce and feel overwhelmed, unsure what steps to take next.
You are dealing with a difficult or high-conflict ex-partner, and need guidance to protect your peace and move forward.
You are going through a breakup and feel lost, needing clarity, direction and support to rebuild your confidence and sense of self.
You feel emotionally drained, stuck or unsure of your future and want to regain control, move forward with strength and direction.
You feel like you're losing control, need a clear, grounded strategy, and safe, non-judgemental space where you feel seen, supported and guided at your own pace.
You need someone by your side, during important meetings or court proceedings
You need support and guidance on how to tell the children and ease the process of transition
Areas of support
Emotional and Personal Guidance
- Ongoing, responsive support via SMS or WhatsApp throughout your journey
- Tailored one-on-one coaching sessions designed around your unique circumstances
- Compassionate guidance to help you process and navigate complex emotions before, during and after separation
- Empowering strategies to rebuild inner balance, strengthen self-confidence, and cultivate lasting resilience
Legal Clarity and Strategic Preparation
- Clear accessible explanations of legal processes, procedures, and potential outcomes
- Practical, step-by-step preparation for meetings with legal professionals and court proceedings
- Emotional grounding and support during interactions with lawyers, mediations and in court settings
Communication and Co-Parenting
- Thoughtful communication strategies for interacting with former partner, including high-conflict or controlling and abusive relationships
- Support in editing and refinement of emails and messages - to ensure clarity, effectiveness, and emotional safety
- Support in developing a stable, respectful and child-focused co-parenting framework
- Techniques to protect your well-being and safeguarding your children during difficult interactions
Children and Emotional Safety
- Guidance on how to talk to your children about divorce - what to say, when and how
- Practical strategies for help your children feel safe, secure and understood
- Support in recognizing and responding to your child's emotional needs
- Advice on navigating and thriving in a blended (patchwork) family
Access to Trusted Professional Support
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- Connection to carefully selected network of specialists, including Family and divorce lawyers, Psychotherapists and support for children, Financial advisors
Creating Your New Reality
- Support in building your life after divorce
- Rediscovering yourself and shaping your new identity
- Guidance on navigating co-parenting and blended family dynamics
- Rebuilding confidence, independence and emotional strength
- Gentle support in returning to dating when you feel ready
- Helping you define your future and make empowered, alligned decisions
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Why does it work?
Personalised Approach
Every separation is unique - and so is my support. I create a tailored strategy built around your situation, your needs, and your emotional journey - because you deserve to feel seen, heard, and supported every step of the way.
Experienced Support in Complex Situations
I work with client's navigating challenging and high-conflict separations, including emotionally and psychologically abusive dynamics. you will receive calm, grounded guidance and help you communicate effectively, protect your wellbeing, and move forward with clarity and strength.
Holistic Approach
This is more than just getting through a breakup - it's about rebuilding you life. I support you through every stage of your journey with care, structure and intention, from managing overwhelming emotions to creating a new, empowered reality.
Your Journey Through the Support
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personalised strategy and clarity
Direct Contact
ongoing support and guidance
Building a New Reality
Your journey begins with a confidential 30-45 min consultation. It allows me to understand your situation in depth and assess how I can best support you in achieving the outcomes you need. This is your space to feel heard, understood, and supported from the very beginning.
We gently bring clarity to your situation and decide on the next steps together. We design a personalised, action plan built around your priorities and needs.
You receive consistent, professional guidance through regular sessions. I will guide you through challenges, help you manage difficult interractions, and support you in making clear, confident decisions - at your pace.
With my support, you will feel more grounded, in control, and prepared for what lies ahead. My role is to ensure you feel supported every step of the way, so you can move forward with clarity, strength, and peace of mind.
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FAQ
Frequently asked questions
The role and purpose of coaching
What exactly does a divorce coach do and how does it differs from a therapist?
A "divorce coach" guides you through the practical and emotional challenges of the separation process by empowering you, helping you make clear decisions and move forward with confidence. The therapist, on the other hand, helps you process the emotional pain and deeper patterns associated with divorce by focusing on healing and mental well-being. In short, coaching focuses on action and the future, while therapy looks inward for healing.
Can a divorce coach replace a lawyer?
No, divorce coaches do not provide legal advice unless they are qualified to do so. However, they can guide you through the legal process and make it smoother and less overwhelming. They help you organize, clarify your goals and communicate effectively with your lawyer, which maximizes the efficiency of your time (and money). The coach prepares you emotionally and strategically for mediations, court hearings or negotiations, helping you stay calm and focused.
Will I "win" in court if I'm supported by divorce coach?
A "divorce coach" guides you through the practical and emotional challenges of the separation process by empowering you, helping you make clear decisions and move forward with confidence. The therapist, on the other hand, helps you process the emotional pain and deeper patterns associated with divorce by focusing on healing and mental well-being. In short, coaching focuses on action and the future, while therapy looks inward for healing.
What exactly does a divorce coach do and how does it differs from a therapist?
Unfortunately, it cannot be promised. Whether you "win" or not, depends on many factors. The coach's role is to guide you through practical and emotional challenges to make the process clearer and less overwhelming.
When is the best to start and who can get the support?
When is the best time to contact you?
This is an individual decision. You can come forward when: you are struggling in your current relationship and need more clarity, you are in the process of separation or you got divorced, but it's still impacting you and holds back from moving on.
Do I need to have already filed a divorce petition before starting?
Do I need to have already filed a divorce petition before starting?No. You can start the support at whatever stage you are at.
Is there any point of using coaching if the divorce is over but I still feel its effects?
Yes, because the end of a divorce does not always mean the end of your struggles. If you feel stuck at any point, you can reach out for support.
Do you also work with men/women?
Yes, I work with anyone who is impacted by the breakup or divorce and need specialist support.
Do you only help in divorce cases or also in unmarried partnerships?
Yes, I work with anyone who is impacted by the breakup or divorce and need Yes, I also help with unmarried partnerships. Whether you've been married or not, a breakup hurts the same and my support is available to help you get through it.specialist support.
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Whatever stage you're at -considering separation, in the middle of it, or rebuilding afterwards - a first conversation costs nothing and changes everything. Tell me a little about where you are, and I'll reply within 24 hours.